christalle, i don't think you deserve respect if you don't even respect others. what did the other people people do to you? that you have to say they have no home, no family, no love etc. you call that respect? i don't think so. if a person at this age don't know what is respect, i really don't know what to say.
you chose to take this path, you've to come to terms with the outcome. in this industry, critisms are inevitable. if you are unhappy with how people treat your fellow contestants and how they're willing to wait for them, you shouldn't have chosen this path. i don't think it's meant for you anyway, since you can't come to terms with certain facts that you have to face. from
MY OPINION, you made the wrong decision. i'm sorry to say that, but i'm just being frank.
you said if we think we belong to the category that we mentioned, only then we will react this way. think again, same thing back to you. if YOU think you ARE what was said about you, then you'll react this way and post that post on your blog.
by the way, "your fans are complaining i'm pulling you away." this sentence is so familiar isn't it? for you information, I was the one who said "wanna pull then let her pull lah." not Shi Ying's fans. if you don't think i'm talking about you, why would you say Shi Ying's fans are complaining? cause you know your actions :)
you hear from people, i don't know what you hear from them anyway. and i wouldn't like to ASSUME. why would people think of you that way? maybe you accidentally did something and gave the wrong impression. but as your fellow fan commented: "But watever they try to make it up, the image that they had done, is already inside our minds.. " yup! whatever is done, the first impression is still there :) my first impression of you was ever since you posted that post. it is not very nice to scold people and DRAG their family in. even if they angered you in any way, what did their family do to you?
NOTHING! it's not respectful to bad mouth others' family when they did nothing to you. so you still think you deserve respect after doing this kind of thing?
Like i said before, i had NOTHING against you in the past.. the feeling was, you're just another contestant. just by one sentence from your post i'm affected.. not only me, but many others. you don't have to say if we think we belong to that category then we'll feel insulted. we don't need to think, by reading that post, you're insulting many. think of it, if from the beginning nobody waits for you, take picture with you or even chat with you, will you be where you are now? will you have people supporting you? will you even feel that there are people supporting you out there and have the motivation to move on? I can tell you, NO. though you might think differently, but when you face that kind of situation, you'll feel: why nobody support me? then what's the point of me going on in this competition? etc etc. there are people supporting you i don't deny. what if there weren't anyone in the theatre to scream for you? how would you feel?
DISAPPOINTED! i can tell your fans aren't that friendly as well. is it wrong to scream for who you support? i don't think so. so why should your fans speak back? i don't see the point.
how is it your problem one decides to wait for the one he/she supports? if we support that particular person, you think we feel happy seeing them so tired? NO! if you are not used to this kind of life, you're really not suit to be in the industry.. because you'll only affect many others who MIGHT support you in future. i pity them :( maybe you'll get used to it soon and change, we'll see. everyone has the rights to be given a second chance. i'm willing to accept if you would just scold in a different way rather than how you dragged to say people had no family, no love etc. it is just not the way how an adult should react. probably if that sentence wasn't up, this post wouldn't be here. :)
there is not a single vulgarity in this post, because i believe vulgarities don't work :) and just by saying
"Yah lah! I can be Miss Nice if they do respect me! Earn my smiles, or I can a B**** too! LOL!", it really shocked me. because i never knew someone who wants to enter an entertainment industry actually says that in public. ok, you're human too, it's nothing wrong to say that when you're angry. but think, if you said that and you HAPPEN to be famous, what will people think of you? you'll face uglier facts than what you're facing now.
why are you so against that person? i don't see how she irritated you. but i'm clear how you're irritating us now. i don't see the point in you telling Shi Ying " your fans are complaining i'm pulling you away". you want Shi Ying to be entirely yours? sorry, she still belongs to her parents. and in time to come, she'll belong to her boyfriend as well. if you understand, but i guess you don't, we just want to have slightly more time with the ones we support now as after the competition, we are quite clear that we can only
默默支持他們 in future. On the other hand, amongst yourselves you still get to gather and chat for hours when you're free. go for outings etc. is it wrong for us wanting to spend more time with them now? there is only 3 days left, and we all DO know that you guys are tired. you guys didn't force us to wait or something, but look, we did this willingly and i know we have to accept the fact that you guys are closer to each other. we never denied. since you have so much time with them, can't you just give us
1/10 of the time you get with them? we'll be more than happy.
after reading your post, i feel that you're really guo fen. but i also understand that your arrangements are so packed now that one can easily get frustrated. you just need to 發洩你所有的不滿. if we just keep arguing, this will never end. i just hope you'll re-think abit. if you had posted that post in a different manner, perhaps things will be better than how it is now. that one sentence wasn't a nice one. it just shows the childish side of someone, where they have to directly bad mouth others, thinking they're innocent and will be forgiven.
i guess you will be forgiven, i know you were irritated when i was like "take picture with her? i don't want!" but you still smiled and said bye. at that point of time, i thought you were very fake. because if you dared to scold at your blog, why not scold face to face? but maybe i wasn't thinking properly
(i don't care what readers will think.. but i think i was too agitated :/), maybe you didn't want arguements, that's why you just smiled and pretended nothing happened.. professional move. however, you failed to do that on your blog. it's not easy to keep feelings, but how you blog out your feelings and scold people is another thing. on top of that, it is a PUBLIC blog. you were too harsh.. maybe you were too tired and angry and irritated or something. i'm not going to make assumptions.
making assumptions hurts.this shall end here, the 3 days coming ahead shall not involve all these. the programme is ending, i don't see why should this be coming. just hope you'll let go slightly as they don't totally belong to you as well. they might have chosen to leave with you, that doesn't mean they belong to you. they don't belong to us either, we never said they did. you just assumed. we just want a short chat with them, without you interferring. maybe you don't think you did, maybe we were being too sensitive. sometimes when we do things, we don't feel we're wrong. only realise after we do some reflections.
i can say, i think i was quite agitated just now, and maybe i said some things i shouldn't have said. i can apologise for that. i dare to face what i did. maybe you should post another post related to your latest one, and face it that you were wrong to put the first sentence there. it's not the point whether or not we think we're that. the fact that we're waiting, you're talking about us indirectly. it's not wrong to get angry like i said, but
word phrasing IS important. especially on a public blog, with the intention of joining the entertainment industry.
if you didn't realise, i'm not scolding. because there is no point scolding at all. i don't see how it helps. maybe some things you say just pricks, you might want to hold back slighlty. from what i heard just now, i just feel that you are afraid that your friends will choose their fans over you, so you had to give them a slightly bad impression of their fans, just by saying that they're complaining etc. 就是沒有那種安全感。
(this is an assumption, and i said assuming hurts.) if you do enter the entertainment industry one day, and this happens once again, i'm sure things wouldn't be that simple. for now, all these arguements can end here. in future, no one can predict.
if people are calling you names, they're in the wrong, but just by insulting back in a different way, you're at fault too. anyway, i've sorted out my thinkings about this. this matter should end here, both parties have their own faults at hand. we
HAVE FRIENDS who support you, and i know it doesn't feel good for her to hear this happening. one is the one she supports, the others are her friends. she can only sit and hear, and get frustrated but cannot show it out.
this shall be the ending of my post, and also the ending of this matter. well, at least for me. :)
p.s: this post is up because i don't feel that my friend should be described this way when she didn't really do anything.
to the left :)
