Sometimes its not easy to tell whether one is hanging out with true friends or not. I just heard something from someone that this particular person, ___ ___ ___, asked why this someone is hanging out with me, i'm so fat. Although i know i'm fat lah.. but is this really the way to define friends? I don't really treat her as a friend though.. and now i don't know if i should trust what this someone had said to me. She told me she don't like this particular person, but she's still talking to her. I'm not saying that just because you don't like this person, you can't talk to her. But come on.. i find something wrong going on here. I don't know how to explain this.
This only tells me that TRUE FRIENDS ARE NOT EASY TO GET, cherish one that comes by. I don't know how it works for you people out there, but when i think i have enough faith in a person to keep my secrets, i won't hold back sharing my feelings with this person. I have found one.. i believe she can be trusted. We consult in each other with our feelings, though we just came together not long back. ( I'm sure you know who you are, thnx for letting me have all these trust in you :D) Though i believe i still won't have correct judgement in my friends, i DO believe that this friend is one of a kind.. THANK YOU!! :)
I will really cherish this friendship.. not letting it fade away. As time goes by, i hope that people will cherish and not treat friendship like a ball.. when you like it, you keep it like GOLD. When the ball gets old, you just leave it aside :(
As for people who are like that, i hope u will re-evaluate your definition of friendship.
Though i don't really treat you as a friend, it has affected my feelings.. as well all do have feelings, we are bound to be affected by words said by others. I know myself better than you do, i don't need people to remind me how i present myself. I think you're not any better, but i don't go to the extend of hurting other peoples' feelings. (i do not mean anything, i'm just stating my feelings) I hope you will think.. how will you react if people said that about you? No one is perfect, everyone has their week points, but i don't hope that this would be the week point of anyone, judging any friends by their size? weight?
I don't think this is any example of TRUE FRIENDS.
Initially i thought u were fine, but this has made me think twice. What you say always reflects on how people will think of you. I DON'T DENY that i have said hurtful things before. I have realised my mistake, and i hope you will.
On the whole, just trying to say, things one do/say affects the people around you. Think twice before you do/say something of others. Think of how you will feel if people said the same thing to you. Then only decide if you should say it. And i still believe that TRUE FRIENDS won't do such things. And i hope i'm not wrong.
I am happy that this someone told me about this, it will allow me to know how this particular person thinks of me, and change my opinion of her.
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